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Hi, I’m Elaine Blidgeon Your Workplace Strategist. Most Professionals Are Blinded By Office Power Plays- I Decode Them For You. I Show Ambitious Professionals How To Respond Strategically, Protect Their Position Without Playing Dirty

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Hard Work Isn’t the Problem. Power Blindness Is.

Most professionals work hard inside systems where the real rules are unwritten, informal, and never explained. Your results suffer because you’re applying effort to a game you haven’t been shown.

In my work, I treat “career stalls” and “difficult people” as technical problems of power and positioning, not personal flaws. I show experienced professionals and first‑time managers how to read what’s really happening:

  • The Players – who actually holds influence (it’s rarely just job titles)
  • The Politics – how decisions are steered before the meeting even starts
  • The Power Plays – the unspoken moves that quietly make or break careers

Once you can see these patterns, the technique changes.
You stop handling office politics as random drama and start responding like a strategist.
You notice the play, protect your position, and choose moves that serve your future self.

Your first step is The Power Play Field Guide and the weekly Power Plays Briefing – where I break down real patterns and the practical responses I use with clients, so you finally have the manual the workplace never gave you.

Get Your Power Play Field Guide Here

What I Mean By “Power Plays”

When I say power plays, I’m talking about the subtle moves people use to get what they want at your expense – the moves most professionals feel but struggle to name.

These are the patterns I specialise in decoding:


✅ The phrases that sound harmless but are designed to make you second‑guess yourself
✅ The “friendly” gestures that quietly shift blame, block your ideas, or put you back in your box.
✅ The face‑saving stories that leave you feeling unreasonable for noticing something is off.

🔗 If you’re good at your job, sense that something in the dynamics is wrong, and still haven’t been given a clear way to see or handle this side of work, you’re exactly who I work with.

I created the Power Play Field Guide, the weekly Briefing, and the Power Plays Lab to share the same calm, forensic way of mapping these games that I use with clients – so you can recognise what’s happening early and protect yourself, without having to play dirty yourself.

Get Your Power Play Field Guide Here

What You Get When You Start

When you join, you’re not getting motivational quotes or generic career tips. You’re stepping into the same way I map and handle power plays with my clients and in my own life and business.

The Power Play Field Guide gives you:

  • A clear, step‑by‑step path from “What just happened?” to “I know exactly what this is and how I’ll handle it next time.”
  • Straightforward breakdowns of the power plays that reliably derail decent people – and what those moves are really trying to do to your status, reputation and options.
  • A way to start building your own “Power Plays OS”: patterns, early‑warning signs and quiet responses that fit you, instead of canned scripts that ignore context.

The Weekly Power Plays Briefing adds:

  • One real‑world power play each week, decoded in plain language the way I do in sessions.
  • A steadier way to see your own situations (“this is a play I can work with, not a personal failure”).
  • One or two precise shifts in what you notice, what you answer, and how much access other people have to you.

Together, they function as the manual I wish I’d had: a practical way to see the game early, protect yourself, and move on purpose, instead of being blindsided over and over again.

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Get Your Power Play Field Guide Here


What Others Say About Me


Doreen Horsely A Case Study

https://youtu.be/k4Mx-ZCtiRg

Matt Love

“Working with Elaine has been very eye opening for me. I was very surprised how effective one session could be- really brought a lot of awareness of how there was a root cause of many different things that was happening in my life. And that awareness enabled me to identify where I was still judging myself…. I learnt that it was a very old belief coming up and it’s not true in anyway, helped me really move forward….Since that day I’ve made better decisions…”


Lola Bailey

“So there was a problem that I had before the mastermind. ….. It was like this fear of me not getting things done. And it wasn’t a fear that I was procrastinating. It was just like, I’m never going to get it done. It was this really kind of weird mindset, not really understanding how I could get myself out of that hole... What was absolutely fascinating about the laser coaching you did (MRM) …. was that the problem that I had literally disappeared. It literally just evaporated. It was like magic. It was like magic. It just disappeared. I have not once thought about it since.. Not once. Not once….it was almost like a miracle.” (Taken from an interview I did with Lola)

Nicole Wyrwa

“I approached Elaine because I found myself stuck in my thinking and could not focus correctly on a future project I wanted to develop.
With her great listening skills, her unique way of asking me questions she was able to make me see the reason for being stuck and disoriented.
I could resonate a lot with her coaching style, she is straight forward, honest and direct but always combined with an amazing sense of empathy, humour and wariness. Not only that we found the root for my struggle, but she also prised my sense of determination out and now I am able to follow again my vision and new project. I can highly recommend working with Elaine if you want to get a clear understanding why you struggle and how you could move forward.”

📡 When You’re In The Middle Of A Play

Sometimes theory isn’t enough. You’re in the middle of a power play, it stings, and you need a clear, steady way through it from someone who has mapped these patterns before.

That’s what the Power Plays Lab is for – a focused 1‑to‑1 and small‑group programme where I work directly with you to:

  • Map the exact power plays in one real situation you’re facing, so you can see who is doing what to whom – and why.
  • Use a structured reframe method I’ve refined over years of client work to clear the emotional fallout, so you stop replaying it in your head and can think strategically again.
  • Decide how you’ll quietly change your stance – how much access that person has to your time, your headspace and your emotional energy – using boundaries that fit you.

You leave with:

  • A precise map of what really happened, what it cost you, and where your leverage actually is.
  • A practical defence plan that protects your credibility and future options, without needing a big dramatic confrontation.
  • Personal rules of thumb we craft together, so next time a similar play starts, you recognise it early and know exactly how you’ll respond.

Learn about the Power Plays Lab

I’m Not Here to Motivate You. I’m Here to Help You Outsmart The System.

For years I was the capable, reliable one — convinced that hard work alone would be enough.
It wasn’t.

What changed was not my work ethic, but how I understood power. I stopped chasing approval and started forensically studying the quiet moves, unwritten rules and power plays that decide who progresses and who stalls.

Now I use that perspective to help professionals decode what’s really going on around them, steady their emotional response, and choose moves that protect their position without playing dirty. I’m not just a coach; I’m a workplace strategist — and I show you how to think and move like one, even inside systems that are set up to keep you reactive.

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You’ll leave with:
✅  Clarity on the real dynamics shaping your work and reputation.
✅ A clear map of where you’ve been giving away power — often without realising.
✅ A way forward that feels calm, clean and under your control, because you finally see the game you’re in.

Ready to Stop Guessing — and Start Moving Smarter?

The next step isn’t about doing more. It’s about seeing what’s actually happening — and using that clarity to change how you work, speak and respond when power plays show up.

🎯 Start with The Power Play Field Guide and the Weekly Power Plays Briefing, where I break down real power‑play patterns and the responses I use with clients, so you can stop being blindsided and start building your own calm, repeatable way of handling politics at work.

🧭 When you’re ready to go deeper with a live situation, the Power Plays Lab is where I work with you to map your specific play, clear the emotional sting, and design how you’ll handle it next — on your terms, with a strategist’s eye rather than a firefighting reflex.

Get the Power Play Field Guide + Briefing

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